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“Reflecting On God And History”

I often conjecture on past atrocities throughout history and feel a seething anger that such events ever occurred. It’s enough to shake the religious beliefs of even the firmest believer.

After such moments of angst and incredulity, though, I immediately rebound. Unless I do, I cannot explain all the marvels of the world. The Big Bang theory and evolution don’t do it for me. Furthermore, events in my own life have adequately convinced me of the existence of God. I would not be here now penning these lines as a writer were it not for the Power and Magnificence of the One in whom I trust and believe.

Yet, questions along the way continue. Perhaps my finite mind has yet to elevate a few levels – or perhaps no human mind can ever comprehend all there is to know about God and the vastness of Creation and the Universe.

Take, for example, the issue of past injustices like human slavery, the Holocaust, conquests and pillaging, genocide and rape, and the establishment of nations where others were forcibly removes and dislocated.

How does one address past crimes against individuals, groups, nations? Should the descendants of those aggrieved rise up and forcibly seek reddress or compensation? Should vengeance be exacted in like manner as the original acts of injustice?

When there are laws in place today which would throw in jail those who follow such reprisals, there is a deterrent. But there is even a larger issue for those who believe in God and justice and who do not wish to blame the innocent for the acts of ancestors or others.

It is here that my belief in God, rather than dwindling, resurges and recharges. See, of there is no God, then villainous acts and atrocities throughout history that were never punished in the human life cycle would never see the light of justice.

Am I just an idealistic writer and human being? Nah – a world without God and without the prospect of a day of reckoning are absolutely beyond my comprehension.

My belief in God trumps such an unfathomable prospect any day.

“The Real Vs. The Fake – Online And In-Person”

Putting your best foot forward is one thing – and it’s often a courteous and considerate thing to do. But pretending to be who or what you are not is another – and a not so delightful thing to those who seek sincerity and authenticity.

I’ve encountered so many fakes online over the years that I often wondered whether I was attending a year-round Halloween party. But I’ve also met some wonderful, genuine individuals who’ve added something special to my life as I hope I’ve added to theirs – whether as a writer or teacher or just as a pal whom they’ve met via my personal timeline.

It is always best to be oneself. rather than to try to please the world. Sure, some will drop off if they determine that you aren’t the type of friend they’d like. But there’ll be others who’ll ask to come into your life because they see in you something that is of value and bona fide.

As we go through life, we all mature, we sometimes correct errors of the past, or see life a bit differently than we did the day before. It is then appropriate to re-focus, to adapt…even to change so that we “better” ourselves along the way. No one is perfect and we all live and hopefully learn.

Until those events occur, though, where one sees the need to change one’s tempo, or to modify, to add or to subtract, it serves one better to be oneself at all times – with sensitivity to others and consideration that we must live and let live.

Everyone is unique. Being a facsimile of another not only creates a
false persona, it can one day boomerang and take down others along with you – leaving the real you to pick up the pieces.

“A Difficult Dilemma Along the Way”

These days, a happy marriage can truly be listed among life’s rarities.The thing about marriage is that the family structure has been the foundation of stable societies for most of recorded human history. When families disintegrate there is a domino effect on the rest of society.

People stay together in unhappy relationships for a multitude of reasons – emotional, financial, the passage of time and the years invested, children, relatives, and other similar factors.

The modern marriage faces a dilemma that those in past centuries did not encounter – since divorce was not as socially acceptable as it is today. Should two unhappy people in a marriage continue to travel together because of considerations like those outlined above, even if they are both miserable and unable to make each other enjoy the short journey of life?

Or should they call it quits, come hell or high water, in order to eke out the best they can in the remaining part of the trip?

Is staying together in a sub-par long-term or marital union the lesser of two evils? Or is going separate ways the better alternative for the sake of both parties?

Maybe, in the final analysis, all one can conclude is that only God knows.

“Faking It All The Way”

We live in a world of fakes. Everywhere we turn, we knock into something or someone lacking bona fide characteristics.

There are fake politicians, fake boobs, fake asses, fake smiles, fake friends, and fake athletes.

People fake it in bed, fake it out of bed, at the office, on the street, on TV, and in person. You go online and encounter another minefield of sham sound bites, overtures, relationships, friendships, and even profiles

Now everyone is calling each other a fraud. It’s like we’re all wandering around not knowing who is who, what is what, who is male, who is female, which purchase is as the ad says, which is not, whose credentials are genuine, whose were purchased in Times Square.

Yet we set aside another day in October each year to pretend to be somebody else!

Alas! That we could set aside one to be who we really are…”Reflections Along The Way”

“Thankful For No Royalty In America”

Kudos to the Founding Fathers of the great nation of America that when they drafted the magnificent American Constitution, there was no inclusion for the statuses of King and Queen, Duke and Duchess, Count and Countess, Maharajah and Maharani…or any such form of so-called privileged royalty.

Too often in history – and even today – monarchs and others with claim to special blood at birth, have expropriated the public coffers, abused, misused, and usurped their proclaimed superiority for sinister, selfish, and ulterior motives while lording it over their hapless subjects.

Perhaps in ancient times, God did indeed use special individuals to guide and protect his peoples – but I daresay that today royalty is an anachronism that is an insult to the concept that all men and women are created equal. I am indeed proud to live in a country that does not include such privileges in its Constitution.

God bless the USA.

“Just Wanna Make A Difference, Not Bring Home Any Prizes”

They say that nice guys always finish last. It does not matter to me.

See, I’m in no race to be first. I just want to put as many smiles on as many people’s faces as I can; or make the journey a little more pleasant or gratifying for as many as I am blessed to; or provoke thought that helps move others along.

Let others rush in a frenzy for top of the list. If I bring up the rear, but made a difference for the better along the way for one, two, three persons, or a million people, my journey will have been a successful one.

“The Inequities of History… and Moving Forward”

History has surely been unkind to many large groups. There must be a heaven if only because over the centuries and millennia, the only thing that many have seen in their lifetime has been pure hell.

Sometimes, one hears an argument that the colonial powers were innately better or that Europeans in general were by nature superior to the Native Americans or the Africans or Indians or Chinese whose lands and lifestyles were the victim of European colonization. We have the case of huge shifts in population by enslavement and indentureship, for example, to the Caribbean.

After the countries in the region gained their independence, there was a flood of citizens to the colonial “mother countries'” leading many analysts to concur that this was further proof of the necessity for others to be Europe-dependent due to deficiencies in their own capabilities.

If you forcibly, or through economic stranglehold, move millions across oceans, then set them free generations later, or renege on promises made in recruiting their services and then leave them hanging, how can a better outcome occur than what has happened? The path to development did not occur via balanced and proportionate means…the end result is chaos. Economies struggle as, in order to survive, people fight for crumbs left behind by departing colonizers.

A bigger pie must be created…and a new psychology must emerge which recognizes that no one is innately inferior, that some are victims of historical injustice, that the ugly past is over, and that all of us – originating from the Old and the New Civilizations – must come together to make the entire world a better place and a more level playing field.

There is no racial inferiority or superiority. There has been a history of injustice. Now we must move on to bringing everyone up to speed, while ridding ourselves of the baggage of centuries gone by.

“All Good, Or All Bad?”

In an effort to counter negative perceptions – historical and contemporary – that others have, many seek to portray their race, caste, ethnicity, tribe, religion as extolling only the quintessential virtues and characteristics ever known to mankind.

While it is understandable that no one wishes to be broad-brushed and stigmatized unsavorily for the real or imagined actions of some within their “group,” the knee-jerk or preconceived reaction to trumpet any group in totally lofty terms might well backfire.

Not only does it often come across as disingenuous, but the record shows that good and evil, lofty and not so lofty, admirable and distasteful behavior and habits exist across the whole spectrum of humanity.

It’s great to point out the positive when too many view only from a negative perspective. But coming to terms with the reality that all human beings are flawed, that regardless of pigmentation, religion, class, caste, etc., one can end up a hero, a villain, or just plain average – such a recognition might perhaps go a longer way in clearing up the distortions and inaccuracies all around and might help us to co-exist more harmoniously.

“The Good Old Days?”

Ever so often, I hear some people cry out for the “good old days” – days of tranquility, chasteness, courtesies, and chivalry. I know where they’re coming from, but I’ve got news. The good old days can be had right here today. There was never a time in history (other than in early Creation, if you believe in that) when the days were just all good old days.

Take America, for example. The so-called good old days when all was allegedly harmonious did not include a whole segment of the population. And what chivalry was there in those days, anyway, when a woman had to give up her seat and move to the back of the bus because of her pigmentation?

What good old days were there during colonialism in Africa, Asia, and the Americas? Good for kings and queens and landed gentry? How about for the colonized? And slaves, commoners, laborers, farm workers?

Good old days for women? A gender that often could not vote or hold equal footing in public, social, or private life – save those with some alleged royal blood or position of nobility?

Yeah, there’s always been conflict, always been the haves and the have nots, periods of stability and instability. Any concept of the good old days, though, must address the issue of for whom were those idyllic and blessed days set aside.

One might well find out that the best days to be had are the ones we face today.

“Throwing Out The Baby With The Bath Water”

Throughout the annals of human history, man has rebelled against the status quo in one form or the other. Sometimes, there are sweeping revolutions which wash away regimes, governments, aristocracies, monarchies, and despots. At other times, the upheaval is social, challenging thousands of years of tradition, moral and religious values, and other customs or behavior.

Unfortunately, we seem to never learn. Change is inevitable, and some change is necessary to repeal injustices and correct wrongs – but do we need to throw out the baby with the bath water? Can we not be meticulous and recognize that life is not always black and white, and that a revolution need not destroy everything in its path when elements exist that have proven functional and optimal through the ages?

Perhaps, the reason we often fail to temper excesses is that it is more arduous to be moderate or to discern the fine lines that separate what works from what does not, or to recognize that people, places, events, objects, circumstances are often a blend of the noble and the ignoble, of the good and the bad. And it is hard to whip up a frenzy or a passion or to stir fierce emotions against a system or pattern or modus operandi unless we can characterize all issues into the good guy versus the bad guy.

That perhaps is why we often end up rectifying a wrong by creating new ones.

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