“Blessed to Be an American”

I know America is not a perfect place. No place is. But it so irks me to see the hate toward this awesome country emanating from people right here, and from all over the world, people who blame us for everything bad under the sun since the dawning of civilization.

Yet, millions continue to flock to the shores of this beautiful land seeking a better life. They come from countries far and wide with varying forms of government – communist, socialist, secular, theocratic, monarchial, royal; countries that are poor, rich, not so rich

Sure America does not have an unblemished history, Sure, it’s taken generations for it to live up to the promises in its glorious Constitution. Sure, we’ve made blunders around the world. But we’ve also sacrificed the lives of Americans in uniform answering the calls of the distressed and oppressed in country after country. The sad reality, though, is that, sometimes the same ones who cry out for our help, often eventually assail us for being there.

We are often accused of seeking oil where there is none, seeking profits where all that exists are barren lands, grieving mothers and children, oppressed peoples, and belligerents hiding in mountains seeking to take us out for anything generous we do – from humanitarian aid to military assistance offered in response to the cries for help.

Let the record be clear. This is one immigrant writer who thanks God every day for bringing him to the shores of the blessed USA.

Even though I am cognizant of the inequities that still exist, of the mistakes that will always be made, America is like a lover. You take her as she is with all her faults because you love her immensely. You recognize your own imperfections and thus do not expect her to be perfect. You’ve tried other experiences and have found out that in life there is no perfection, for we are still all human. But you also know that the one you hold close to your bosom is the one who drives you wild with passion, the one who takes you to the peaks of mountaintops that no one else can, even if they might have a few characteristics that you wish your lover had.

Then again, you reflect, that there is no other who completes you like the one you have fallen for. The one you hold dear in your heart is the one that you will stand up for – come hell or high water. I’ll stand up for America while accepting its imperfections. And I won’t reciprocate animosity to those around the globe who have a love/hate perspective on America.

I’m just thankful that I’m here, that my love is here, and I’ll use my pen to continue to fervently express my admiration for the love of my life.

“Malapropisms”

Defined as the mistaken use of a word in place of a similar-sounding one.

Examples:

– The doc gave me an interjection.

(should be “injection”)

– She lay prostate for her physical.

(should be “prostrate”)

– The City Council should move to better eliminate the streets at night.

(should be “ illuminate”)

– Kindly massage me when I get home.

(should be “message”)

“Ending a Sentence with a Preposition”

Nowadays, it’s fine to end a sentence with a preposition.

Many of us grew up being taught that ending a sentence with a preposition was a no-no. The rules have changed, and once the sentence structure is otherwise good, you can ignore the old-time rule.

“What are you sitting on?”

“This is the movie I told you about”

In the two sentences above which both end in prepositions, they sound more natural than: “On what are you sitting?” and “This is the movie about which I told you.”

While the latter two sentences are grammatically correct, modern usage also allows the first two examples where the sentences end in prepositions.

“Who vs. Whom”

Use “who” when referring to the SUBJECT of a verb and “whom” where reference is to the OBJECT of a verb or preposition.

Incorrect: “Whom likes Miles Alex Writer’s Page?”

Correct: “Who likes Miles Alex Writer’s Page?”

Here “who” is the subject of the verb “likes.”

Incorrect: “Kudos to all my followers who I so appreciate!”

Correct: “Kudos to all my followers whom I so appreciate!”

Here “whom” is the object of the verb “appreciate.”

“American Democracy At Work”

Throughout history people have experimented with varying forms of government. Democracy as exemplified in the West has largely been trumped as the best recorded form, in that everyone’s vote counts equally and the majority l determines the result.

While this writer too advocates democracy over other systems, he is also mindful of its imperfections. We do not live, after all, in a perfect world, for human beings are imperfect. The Electoral College system intended to give states with small populations an advantage in electing representatives at the federal level can be argued as thwarting the concept that all votes are equally weighed. That is a discourse that can produce both pros and cons.

But the larger issue, I believe, is that when a majority or a sizable enough segment of the population is uniformed, or biased against other segments, or is easily influenced by glitz and glamour or rhetoric rather than substance, the results can be alarming thus throwing a tremendous curve ball in the process.

Both as a writer and as a citizen, I continue to champion democracy over monarchy, dictatorship, fascism, communism, theocracies, etc., or whenever the citizenry is not given the right to elect its leaders.

Today in America, the results of the last presidential election – however unpalatable they are for millions – is a vindication for democracy as we define it. But it is also a stark reminder that democracy too can produce devastating results and throw a nation and a world into disarray.

That is why I continue to salute the Founding Fathers and the great Constitution they devised – one which assures us that as fearful as some consequences can be, even in a democracy, checks and balances exist to protect us from extremism.

The separation of powers at the governmental level – the Executive, Legislative and Judiciary – and between the federal and state levels (the latter referred to as ‘federalism”), can help one go to bed each night knowing that as important as elections are in changing national and international dynamics, at least at home in America, we need never fear the rise of a tyrant who can get away with doing everything that he or she wishes to do.

“In Celebration of Happy Romantic Relationships”

My readers and my friends know that my pen flows in multiple directions – and that many of my pieces include commentaries on the trials and tribulations of the modern marriage and of long-term relationships. Lest there be any misconstruction that as a writer and as a human being I see only downsides, I’d like to celebrate those who are in blessed and joyous relationships – for indeed, there are millions around the world who fall into this category.

Many choose to travel alone, but by all indications, most prefer to journey with a companion. And rightfully so. Companionship with the right person can lift one to highs unparalleled in any other relationship – especially when premised on love and mutual respect.

As we pass through the highways and byways of life, the twists and turns, the dark days and the sunny ones, having someone beside you who cares and whom you care for, can surely be an exhilarating and wondrous experience. If a couple is able to neutralize the gloomy days and the inevitable challenges, there really is no better way to travel. There’ll always be a shoulder to lean on, someone to wipe away the tears, or someone to share laughter and sweet memories with. And for you to do the same in return.

To be sure there are so many things that one can enjoy solo. My hat is off to those who do. For those who seek a romantic companion or who already have one, there can also be much, much to celebrate if the partner is one whose presence brings more sunshine than gloom. Life is a mixture of tears and laughter – whether one goes it alone or not. But for those who choose the latter and find the right person, the sky is the limit, the joy untold as together the two face both the curve balls and the ecstasies of mortal life.

There are oh so many who enjoy this state of affairs. I not only tip my hat…I send out a toast to all those who have found in life and love what Nature and God intended it to be.

“The Fictional Politician”

Politicians running for office never tell you only the truth. See, they feel that if they do, no one would vote for them.

I’m not a politician, just a social commentator and writer, so I’ll tell you what they should really say, but are afraid to…the following is from my fictional politician…one I dreamed up….

“Vote for me and I will try to see how much of my plans I can accomplish. I probably won’t be able to even do half of what I want.

“See, in politics, as in everything else in life, there will be compromises, give and take. Sometimes , I’ll have to concede; at other times, those with whom I must work in governing will concede.”

“By the way, I am not God. Please don’t base your entire lives on my winning office because no elected official can correct everything that’s wrong with your life. And even if I do get some things on my agenda through Congress/Parliament, etc., these things can take years to have an effect on anybody’s life..

“Please vote for me. I can’t guarantee you anything…but I’ll try my best to make life a little easier for most, not all of you, in the long run…and remember when policies take effect, some smile and some cry.

“Okay folks, please vote for me.”

“Thanks.

” Sincerely,

“The Fictional Political Candidate.”

“All Set For Winter!”

“Here in the Northeast USA, I hear attractive people complain all the time during the winter months that it’s so darned cold and unbearable. Yet, I often see the same folks scurrying around outside wearing mini-skirts, sleeveless tops, and no hats.

“I tell ya, it pays to not be good-looking. See, take me, for example, I don’t have to make snap decisions when the temps plunge on whether to put health before beauty or beauty before health.

“I bundle up with my ski-mask, ear muffs, hoodie, and I’m all set. And for some strange reason, people always open their wallets and give me money when I’m out there snarling at the frigid temps!

“Yeah, let those with beauty and options debate what to do! I’m all set for the winter months.”…”Escapades of Miles Alex”

“The Role Of A Lifetime”

So many of us want to be a star, a celebrity, or to be someone in the limelight. The best show to star in, though, is your own personal life story.

That is a story that will still be alive as long as you are; and that will not lose its luster even when the paparazzi are gone, when the media loses interests, and when the autograph seekers have moved on to another guy basking in his fifteen minutes of fame.

Give this part your best, for you’ll never be a has-been or an extra. You’ll always hold the starring role, and nothing will ever compare to this, for it’s the most important plot you’ll ever write – a plot that lasts a lifetime.

“The Value Of Character”

The thing about having excellent character is that it is valuable only to you, your loved ones, and those with whom you come into contact. It will not necessarily make you a star or put wealth, fame, and celebrity status on your side; but those things have been known to fizzle and often last only fifteen minutes – then the supporters and fans disappear “like snow upon the desert’s dusty face, which lighting a little hour or two, is gone.” (paraphrased from the “Rubaiyat” by Omar Khayyam).

We all would love wealth and the security that comes with it, but if it means sacrificing character in order to get there, it may not be worthwhile. Character will always keep those who value you as a human being around you – and you’ll sleep better at night knowing that you did not trade your self-worth for valuables that can disappear in an hour like the snow upon a desert that the famed Persian philosopher Omar Khayyam mentions, even though he was referring to worldly hopes, not characrer, in those specific verses.

Indeed, good character is worth more than money in the bank…and you are the only one in control of how long it lasts.

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