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“All Set For Winter!”

“Here in the Northeast USA, I hear attractive people complain all the time during the winter months that it’s so darned cold and unbearable. Yet, I often see the same folks scurrying around outside wearing mini-skirts, sleeveless tops, and no hats.

“I tell ya, it pays to not be good-looking. See, take me, for example, I don’t have to make snap decisions when the temps plunge on whether to put health before beauty or beauty before health.

“I bundle up with my ski-mask, ear muffs, hoodie, and I’m all set. And for some strange reason, people always open their wallets and give me money when I’m out there snarling at the frigid temps!

“Yeah, let those with beauty and options debate what to do! I’m all set for the winter months.”…”Escapades of Miles Alex”

“The Role Of A Lifetime”

So many of us want to be a star, a celebrity, or to be someone in the limelight. The best show to star in, though, is your own personal life story.

That is a story that will still be alive as long as you are; and that will not lose its luster even when the paparazzi are gone, when the media loses interests, and when the autograph seekers have moved on to another guy basking in his fifteen minutes of fame.

Give this part your best, for you’ll never be a has-been or an extra. You’ll always hold the starring role, and nothing will ever compare to this, for it’s the most important plot you’ll ever write – a plot that lasts a lifetime.

“The Value Of Character”

The thing about having excellent character is that it is valuable only to you, your loved ones, and those with whom you come into contact. It will not necessarily make you a star or put wealth, fame, and celebrity status on your side; but those things have been known to fizzle and often last only fifteen minutes – then the supporters and fans disappear “like snow upon the desert’s dusty face, which lighting a little hour or two, is gone.” (paraphrased from the “Rubaiyat” by Omar Khayyam).

We all would love wealth and the security that comes with it, but if it means sacrificing character in order to get there, it may not be worthwhile. Character will always keep those who value you as a human being around you – and you’ll sleep better at night knowing that you did not trade your self-worth for valuables that can disappear in an hour like the snow upon a desert that the famed Persian philosopher Omar Khayyam mentions, even though he was referring to worldly hopes, not characrer, in those specific verses.

Indeed, good character is worth more than money in the bank…and you are the only one in control of how long it lasts.

“This Thing Called Love”

There’s something awesome about romantic love that has made it the subject matter of writers, singers, artistes of every genre and caliber, psychology and medical journals, and a host of media and entertainment forums from time immemorial.

The thing about romance is that, while sex can be part of it, it is far more powerful on the human psyche than sex alone can ever be. The love that a man can feel for a woman and vice versa can lift their spirits toimmeasurable heights or bring them down to a bottomless pit never before imaginable. Love has even sometimes destroyed kings and queens, brought down giants and empires, and wreaked havoc everywhere from palaces to humble abodes.

No one is immune, and when Cupid shoots his arrow, he sometimes misfires or shoots one into one party and forgets to shoot another matching one into a second party.

Yet for all its downsides, its upsides are unequaled. It can bring one immense euphoria , joy, and ecstasy, and make the difference between living and merely surviving. The emotional and physical intimacies involved are unparalleled and no writer can ever do sufficient justice to its full range.

It’s a powerful…but mighty strange thing…this thing called love.

“Change Via Violence Vs. Non-Violence”

People often debate whether systems or statuses quo that are evil and unjust can be overthrown by peaceful means – or whether violence is sometimes the only course of action to achieve that goal. As a writer, teacher, and peaceful law-abiding human being, I am inclined to vote for the former option.

Of course I do not live under a political or economic system that is totalitarian or oppressive or one whose laws and apparatus are geared toward forceful subjugation of others. I did not live under slavery or the Holocaust or during all the various countless reigns of terror perpetrated throughout history by one group over another – whether the criterion was race or religion or sect or tribe or class or caste or nationality.

Perhaps that is why I can eagerly select peaceful means over violent ones. I am also mindful that so many innocents get swept under, and away, when violence becomes the medium to bring about change.  And I am also mindful of the historical record that violent revolution often in turn creates a precedent that once unleashed can spiral out of control and cause an unending domino effect that undermines even lawful processes. The excesses of the French and Cuban revolutions are two relatively “recent” examples of this ( “recent in the context of human history).

For these and other reasons, I hold dearly the examples of two giants whose main modus operandi to dismantle oppression and institutionalized injustice was not violence but peaceful protest. Mohandas K. Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King were in no way cowards. It requires bravery, stamina, determination, and resilience to put one’s life on the line, armed with nothing but words and a message, awakening people to a cause that is just and noble.

Their words and their sense of equity for all, not just for those whose rights they so vigorously championed, will always be a beacon of hope and an inspiration to those, who like me, prefer non-violent change to guns, bombs, and warfare – at least as a first line of attack on evil, corrupt, and unjust systems.

“Photography Shoot”

“I envy those dudes who are asked to do photo shoots with gorgeous photographers in their dimly lit studios. Seems so flattering and romantic, if I can say.

“The only time I tried that was when I answered an ad in a magazine tor a handsome fella to pose for a centerfold shoot for a ladies journal that was catering to single women.

“When I showed up at the studio, the photographer not only angrily turned on all the fluorescent switches in the studio, she also pulled out a gun to do another kind of shoot.

“Needless to say, I bolted out of there and never looked back. That was the end of my centerfold ambitions”…”The Life and Times of Johnny Amazon”

“Suicide”

Most of us emote when we hear that someone has taken his or her own life, but when a celebrity takes his, the news media bombards us with the inevitable coverage. The soul-searching, the analysis, and the incredulity continue for a while… then abates until another icon repeats the tragedy.

Perhaps, one reason that the suicide of a celebrity is more amazing to so many is that many still cling to the notion that money and fame can solve all of the needs of a mortal to live a blessed and fulfilled life. Truth be told, money and status do indeed add to the pleasures of life – but they do not guarantee the full level of equilibrium that a human being needs to be satisfied.

Money and professional success are only part of the equation in completing the physical, spiritual, moral, emotional, and other needs that encompass the life cycle of each person. And I daresay that there are many who have found a proper balance even without much money or fame.

Ever wonder why so many people in the limelight with fancy cars, homes, money in the bank, media attention, and huge fan bases still turn to abuse of drugs and alcohol, or seek binges, orgies, and other escape mechanisms from reality? What are they running from when it seems to the world at large that they have everything that is still out of reach of billions around the world?

Yes, we should all feel sadness at the news that someone has reached that awful precipice and decides to end it all. But do not be unduly surprised or more perturbed when it is someone who is an icon. In the final analysis, it matters not fame or wealth or popularity.

There are intrinsic basic needs within us all – regardless of status or income or class or creed. And those needs often involve emotional satisfaction with the way we evaluate our relationships with family, friends, associates, how we view the world around us…and how much meaning we can give to life beyond our physical journeys in this sphere.

My deepest sadness is felt at the passing of anyone who has reached that awful and tragic cliff of despair and gloom.

I hope, though, that collectively, we can all, from all walks of life, find some solutions that will guide people, from all walks of life, away from the point of no return.

“Novelty in Life, Love, and Friendship”

So often, seeking excitement and change, many succumb to the glitz and glamour of the new. Then they realize that novelty does not necessarily mean better.

We live in a world of choreographed settings, of actors and actresses strutting their wares on TV, on the runway, or on stage…each appearing for a transitory period, only to be soon replaced by another cast – and so it goes on from one episode to the next.

Friendships based purely on flashing neon lights, sex appeal, and popularity, often parallel the great theater all around us – they last a while, then are cast aside when the glow is no more.

Better to stay the course with those who’ve proven to be true and trusted, who, whether they have star appeal, bombshell looks, a ritzy aura, or not, will be with you all the way, as you will be with them – even when the tent has folded and the show has moved on.

“Matching Pillowcases Only?”

In the old days, grandma and granddad cautioned against sex before marriage. It’s a caveat that many still accept. There is, though, a downside to following that prescription…these days, that is.

If one does, with so much blurring of the genders in fashion, custom, sexuality…and even in biology, one might end up bolting out of the honeymoon suite….not because of shyness, but at discovery that it’s not only the pillowcases that are matching…….”Reflections Along The Way”…

“Faking It All The Way”

We live in a world of fakes. Everywhere we turn, we knock into something or someone lacking bona fide characteristics.

There are fake politicians, fake boobs, fake asses, fake smiles, fake friends, and fake athletes.

People fake it in bed, fake it out of bed, at the office, on the street, on TV, and in person. You go online and encounter another minefield of sham sound bites, overtures, relationships, friendships, and even profiles

Now everyone is calling each other a fraud. It’s like we’re all wandering around not knowing who is who, what is what, who is male, who is female, which purchase is as the ad says, which is not, whose credentials are genuine, whose were purchased in Times Square.

Yet we set aside another day in October each year to pretend to be somebody else!

Alas! That we could set aside one to be who we really are…”Reflections Along The Way”

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