There are so many who make a mad dash to be the first in some endeavor or attainment. Being first has its positives, and can be an exhilarating experience both for the one who gets there and for those who root for one.

If, though, in order to get there, you lack authenticity, try to appeal to all and sundry as being in accord with everyone, put on a phony act, or get to the finishing line via devious means orchestrated by some supporters and others who violate the rules of the game…if you attain a first time distinction or place like this, the facade will one day crumble.

You’ll end up a loser and those who wanted you to be the first will go away bitter and disappointed. Better to finish the race without pretense and let the time come when the genuine article gets there.

Being the first is not always the best – for you or for those who wish you well.