Author: Miles Alex (Page 7 of 14)

“The Criminal Mentality – A Universal Phenomenon”

The criminal mentality does not find its place of abode in just one or two specific groups. Every race, ethnicity, tribe, caste, religion, and nationality has its fair share of lawbreakers. Historical circumstances and other socio-economic factors can foster statistically larger percentages of crimes to be committed by one group or the other.

There can hardly be justification for wanton murder, acts of terror, brutality and other heinous crimes – but one must never categorize and hold culpable entire groups for the acts of members within those groups. Neither should one fall victim to the unfounded cries of racism by criminals who go that route when all else fails.

We should also all be mindful too to never assume that one’s own specific group is bereft of ugly, sinister, and criminal minds. Lawfulness and unlawfulness exist within all groups – and this has been the case since the dawning of history.

“The Power of Everyone To Make A Difference”

One often sees and is impressed by the display of peoples’ academic and professional credentials. It is important that individuals performing duties or services for others be properly qualified. One does want, for example, the doctor who treats one to be an M.D. with proper training, or a corporate executive whose company products or stocks one purchases, to be adequately credentialed.

While we tip out hats to those who’ve attained the requisite designations and qualifications, we must remember that, other than for the qualified individual, these are of value primarily to clients/customers and peers.

In the larger scheme of things, in the world at large, everyone – highly credentialed or not – has an awesome opportunity to make their corner of the planet a better and more enjoyable experience for as many as one comes into contact with.

By our actions, behavior, interactions with others, the impact we leave can have far-reaching effects that mean a whole lot more to more people than the possession of a string of degrees, awards, trophies, licenses, and titles.

Each day we wake up and step out into the world, we make a difference to many – neighbor, co-worker, friend, associate, cashier, fellow passenger, mailman, delivery guy, shopkeeper, doorman, guard, customer…and a host of others.

When the smoke clears and the dust settles, the little things we do each day, the courtesies we show, the kind words we say, the smile we give, the helping hand we extend – all these and many more – will do much more to make life more enjoyable, to make the world a better place, to fulfill us more, than a long list of credentials from the best institutions can ever accomplish.

We all have that power individually, whether poor or rich, humble or well to do, highly educated or not, to reach out and leave circles of brilliance and positivity that can ricochet and expand infinitely beyond our immediate radius

“Pay Heed On A New Date!”

“It’s important to pay heed and listen carefully to what you hear whenever you are on a new date. Mis-hearing can cost you a wasted effort.

“I once misheard what a blind date was remarking, when she whispered to me softly, “I am a sex addict.”

“I later discovered, much to my chagrin, that what she said was that she was a TEXT addict..damn…now I spend all my nights hugging my pillow while she texts away…”…”The Life and Times of Johnny Amazon”

“A Salute To The Universal Human Being”

I respect the need to admire and recognize those with whom we share some common group characteristics. It seems natural to root for those who are members of specific groups defined by race, religion, creed, nationality, region, profession, hobby, or some similar criterion.

As a human being, I too often give kudos to those who share some group membership with me along those lines, and who do something commendable.

As a writer, I also look at the larger picture, and see myself first and foremost as a Universal Human Being. It is to this group that I give the most salutations, for it is made up of the Universal Man and the Universal Woman.

All human beings are members of this group and we all share the need for food, clothing, housing and the desire to self-actualize and to attain the maximum we can in our sojourns on this planet.

Here’s my salute to the Universal Human Being! May we all come together to make this planet the best it can be for ourselves and our progeny. May we join hands to combat the common threats we all face and to ensure a rising tide that lifts all boats, rather than a receding one that capsizes all vessels.

“Just A Full Moon!”

“I can never figure why some people get scared when there’s a full moon. I mean, that’s all just superstition. A full moon is no cause to be terrified! In fact, I feel quite the opposite. I’m usually so happy and excited that I run out of my house and prance around in my night wear shouting out loudly for all the world to hear what a lovely, bright evening it is!

“For some reason, my neighbors all slam their windows and doors shut. Phew! Sure is a mess living among people with false notions about moons and ladders and black cats!”.

“Comic Of The Month!”

“We all have some talent or expertise in life. If you are not excelling in something, switch to another, for it just means you’re in the wrong competition.

“Take me, for example, try as I may, i’ve never been a winner in a beauty contest. All my friends won titles like ‘Mr. Colgate,’ ‘Dashing Jim,’ ‘Hunk of the Week,’ and the like.

“Now, I could have hung my head in shame or knelt in a corner – but I didn’t! I switched gears and am now running for comic of the month.”….”Escapades of Miles Alex”

“Just Point Him To Dunkin Donuts”

“In these days of political correctness and trying to do the right thing, both men and women need to ensure that there are no misunderstandings in their relationships with each other. For example, many ladies rightfully wanna know whether a man is actually trying to hit on them, is hitting on them, wants to hit on them, or none of the above. Below, ladies, are just a few friendly pointers from your friendly neighbor, Miles Alex.

“If a man tips his hat and says, ‘Good morning’ or ‘hello,’ he’s just being courteous. If he whistles as you walk by, check first to see if he’s blowing a flute, has on a turban, and carries a snake in a basket. If all of the above, then, no, he’s not hitting on you, he’s just a snake charmer seeking an audience.

“Now, if a male, whom you know as an acquaintance, always does you an unsolicited favor, or regularly offers to do something for you, well, you have a really awesome, friendly, helpful person there for you!

“If he never fails to ask, though, to come up for coffee late at night when you’re alone, you might have a potential paramour – or it could be he’s just a late night coffee drinker not remotely trying to hit on you. If you’re unsure and have no interest in this dude other than for his kind gestures, play it safe.

“Give him a few bucks and point him to the nearest Dunkin Donuts which serves freshly brewed coffee 24/7”…..”Helpful Tips for the Ladies”…

“Music”

Music is a universal art form and is one of the best media for expressing the wide range of human experience – love, death, joy, sadness, dreams, despair, and all other facets of reality or fantasy.

Many lovers of artistic expression are able to appreciate good music in any language or form, even when they do not understand the spoken and written language in which it is expressed. This is because music in itself is a language that crosses geographic borders and reaches out across rivers, oceans, mountains, and valleys to touch the heart, stir the emotions, and carry a message to the listener. That message often needs no translation. The good artiste can bring it home with just his or her talent and instrumental accompaniment.

Growing up in Guyana, I was exposed to all kinds of music genres and to several formats – Reggae, Chutney, Asian Indian/Bollywood, American Country, Pop, Classical, solo artistes, Big Band, live performances, radio music, church choir, and a whole wide range.

People often associate some genres with specific racial, ethnic, or national backgrounds – and usually rightfully so. One must be aware, though, that a lover of good music, one who empathizes or commiserates with fellow beings around the globe, can cross boundaries and receive the story told without the limitation of time, space, or geography.

My hat’s off to all artistes who use their talent to portray life in all its manifestations – but who also are sensitive to universal standards of decorum and etiquette. As a writer myself, and an aspiring songwriter too, I do believe that while art forms and expressions must tell the tale of the human experience in all its aspects, a good artist – singer, painter, writer, musician, dancer, actor – must place self-imposed limits if they are to capture the widest range of potential listeners or readers.

May good music continue to soothe us, to liberate us, to tell the story of our struggles and victories, and sustain us as we continue the arduous journey of life.

“Death by Adultery”

The news is often filled with stories of triangular love affairs which result in the death of a spouse, and sometimes his or her lover, at the hands of an enraged marital or romantic partner gone ballistic. The legal system goes to work rapidly and once caught, the murderer – more often than not, a male – faces swift justice in the courts for the crime committed.

I often hear, though, individuals commenting that a specific murdered spouse deserved what they got for being “unfaithful.” It seems that while the law always recognizes the criminality of murder, moral condemnation is sometimes lacking, or is several steps behind.

This is appalling. Whether one recognizes the complex and dynamic nature of individual human beings and relationships or not, it seems to me that adultery does not rise to the level of criminality and that murder is not the penalty, even if it did. So many are prone to moral condemnation without knowing all the circumstances which a couple can face and must grapple with alone.

We are all, undoubtedly, entitled to moral or religious beliefs about cheating and adultery. But to assert that a murdered spouse “deserved” to be violently killed (as is often the case) for such acts, seems to me to add insult to injury.

Whatever hurt and pain a jilted lover may feel, human life is precious, and God is the final arbiter. It is no doubt sad and painful to experience alleged violations of trust or commitment – but taking the life of the one that one allegedly loves is both criminal and morally reprehensible. It is the opposite side of love, regardless of the just or unjust events which lead to someone seeking love in the arms of an extramarital partner.

As Jesus admonished, when the throng brought an adulteress before him for punishment, “Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.”

“After The Campaign Is Over, It’s Still About Each Of Us Individually”

It is good citizenship to be concerned about one’s political environment and to scrutinize candidates’ agendas to see how they might impact one and the larger society. Be wary though to never become so intoxicated by the rhetoric of political campaigns that you get caught up in a whirlwind imagining that all the ills that beset you as an individual will evaporate should your candidate or party gain office.

There is no easy way out for most of us – except for those born with a silver spoon. A good and healthy political status quo which provides opportunities is awesome. But in politics as in other aspects of life, there will always be compromises and choices to be made by those governing.

When the smoke clears and the dust settles, the dreams that each of uscarries within our psyches and hearts for a better life will be primarily dependent on the sacrifices we make as individuals, the hard work we must put in, the luck that comes our way, the blessings that God (or the stars, if one is agnostic) pours out on us.

Yes….our success in this arduous journey we all undertake is riding on a whole wide range of factors…and often it is you and I who are the stars of our own individual shows. Good luck, my friends…it’s often a tough ride if we want to get somewhere worth getting to.

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