Author: Miles Alex (Page 4 of 13)

“Faking It All The Way”

We live in a world of fakes. Everywhere we turn, we knock into something or someone lacking bona fide characteristics.

There are fake politicians, fake boobs, fake asses, fake smiles, fake friends, and fake athletes.

People fake it in bed, fake it out of bed, at the office, on the street, on TV, and in person. You go online and encounter another minefield of sham sound bites, overtures, relationships, friendships, and even profiles

Now everyone is calling each other a fraud. It’s like we’re all wandering around not knowing who is who, what is what, who is male, who is female, which purchase is as the ad says, which is not, whose credentials are genuine, whose were purchased in Times Square.

Yet we set aside another day in October each year to pretend to be somebody else!

Alas! That we could set aside one to be who we really are…”Reflections Along The Way”

“Thankful For No Royalty In America”

Kudos to the Founding Fathers of the great nation of America that when they drafted the magnificent American Constitution, there was no inclusion for the statuses of King and Queen, Duke and Duchess, Count and Countess, Maharajah and Maharani…or any such form of so-called privileged royalty.

Too often in history – and even today – monarchs and others with claim to special blood at birth, have expropriated the public coffers, abused, misused, and usurped their proclaimed superiority for sinister, selfish, and ulterior motives while lording it over their hapless subjects.

Perhaps in ancient times, God did indeed use special individuals to guide and protect his peoples – but I daresay that today royalty is an anachronism that is an insult to the concept that all men and women are created equal. I am indeed proud to live in a country that does not include such privileges in its Constitution.

God bless the USA.

“Just Wanna Make A Difference, Not Bring Home Any Prizes”

They say that nice guys always finish last. It does not matter to me.

See, I’m in no race to be first. I just want to put as many smiles on as many people’s faces as I can; or make the journey a little more pleasant or gratifying for as many as I am blessed to; or provoke thought that helps move others along.

Let others rush in a frenzy for top of the list. If I bring up the rear, but made a difference for the better along the way for one, two, three persons, or a million people, my journey will have been a successful one.

“The Inequities of History… and Moving Forward”

History has surely been unkind to many large groups. There must be a heaven if only because over the centuries and millennia, the only thing that many have seen in their lifetime has been pure hell.

Sometimes, one hears an argument that the colonial powers were innately better or that Europeans in general were by nature superior to the Native Americans or the Africans or Indians or Chinese whose lands and lifestyles were the victim of European colonization. We have the case of huge shifts in population by enslavement and indentureship, for example, to the Caribbean.

After the countries in the region gained their independence, there was a flood of citizens to the colonial “mother countries'” leading many analysts to concur that this was further proof of the necessity for others to be Europe-dependent due to deficiencies in their own capabilities.

If you forcibly, or through economic stranglehold, move millions across oceans, then set them free generations later, or renege on promises made in recruiting their services and then leave them hanging, how can a better outcome occur than what has happened? The path to development did not occur via balanced and proportionate means…the end result is chaos. Economies struggle as, in order to survive, people fight for crumbs left behind by departing colonizers.

A bigger pie must be created…and a new psychology must emerge which recognizes that no one is innately inferior, that some are victims of historical injustice, that the ugly past is over, and that all of us – originating from the Old and the New Civilizations – must come together to make the entire world a better place and a more level playing field.

There is no racial inferiority or superiority. There has been a history of injustice. Now we must move on to bringing everyone up to speed, while ridding ourselves of the baggage of centuries gone by.

“All Good, Or All Bad?”

In an effort to counter negative perceptions – historical and contemporary – that others have, many seek to portray their race, caste, ethnicity, tribe, religion as extolling only the quintessential virtues and characteristics ever known to mankind.

While it is understandable that no one wishes to be broad-brushed and stigmatized unsavorily for the real or imagined actions of some within their “group,” the knee-jerk or preconceived reaction to trumpet any group in totally lofty terms might well backfire.

Not only does it often come across as disingenuous, but the record shows that good and evil, lofty and not so lofty, admirable and distasteful behavior and habits exist across the whole spectrum of humanity.

It’s great to point out the positive when too many view only from a negative perspective. But coming to terms with the reality that all human beings are flawed, that regardless of pigmentation, religion, class, caste, etc., one can end up a hero, a villain, or just plain average – such a recognition might perhaps go a longer way in clearing up the distortions and inaccuracies all around and might help us to co-exist more harmoniously.

“The Good Old Days?”

Ever so often, I hear some people cry out for the “good old days” – days of tranquility, chasteness, courtesies, and chivalry. I know where they’re coming from, but I’ve got news. The good old days can be had right here today. There was never a time in history (other than in early Creation, if you believe in that) when the days were just all good old days.

Take America, for example. The so-called good old days when all was allegedly harmonious did not include a whole segment of the population. And what chivalry was there in those days, anyway, when a woman had to give up her seat and move to the back of the bus because of her pigmentation?

What good old days were there during colonialism in Africa, Asia, and the Americas? Good for kings and queens and landed gentry? How about for the colonized? And slaves, commoners, laborers, farm workers?

Good old days for women? A gender that often could not vote or hold equal footing in public, social, or private life – save those with some alleged royal blood or position of nobility?

Yeah, there’s always been conflict, always been the haves and the have nots, periods of stability and instability. Any concept of the good old days, though, must address the issue of for whom were those idyllic and blessed days set aside.

One might well find out that the best days to be had are the ones we face today.

“Throwing Out The Baby With The Bath Water”

Throughout the annals of human history, man has rebelled against the status quo in one form or the other. Sometimes, there are sweeping revolutions which wash away regimes, governments, aristocracies, monarchies, and despots. At other times, the upheaval is social, challenging thousands of years of tradition, moral and religious values, and other customs or behavior.

Unfortunately, we seem to never learn. Change is inevitable, and some change is necessary to repeal injustices and correct wrongs – but do we need to throw out the baby with the bath water? Can we not be meticulous and recognize that life is not always black and white, and that a revolution need not destroy everything in its path when elements exist that have proven functional and optimal through the ages?

Perhaps, the reason we often fail to temper excesses is that it is more arduous to be moderate or to discern the fine lines that separate what works from what does not, or to recognize that people, places, events, objects, circumstances are often a blend of the noble and the ignoble, of the good and the bad. And it is hard to whip up a frenzy or a passion or to stir fierce emotions against a system or pattern or modus operandi unless we can characterize all issues into the good guy versus the bad guy.

That perhaps is why we often end up rectifying a wrong by creating new ones.

“On Religion And God”

Religion and belief in God should be liberating experiences which promote the most satisfying of all possible mental and emotional states. They should free one from the bondage of insecurity and despair, and be premised on the idea that even when all does not work well with the world, there is still hope beyond the finite possibilities of the human mind.

When it turns out that religion is used to spread hate and violence, the suppression and extermination of others, or the extinguishment of their dreams, then it becomes the antithesis of beauty. It morphs into just another manifestation of evil masquerading as good.

We must all be wary that we do not succumb to wolves in disguise pushing ideologies that are the opposite of what our individual and collective conscience tells us is beneficial to the human race.

Otherwise instead of religion freeing us from despair and uncertainty, it’ll end up sending us all hurling into a bottomless pit of gloom and doom.

“What Can I Buy Today For The Good Life?”

One reason so many people go broke so fast is the avalanche of other people assailing them, all telling them they’ve got the formula to kick their lives up a notch.

I mean, every time you step out, somebody is touting some product or service that’ll make your life so much brighter, lift your spirits, and turn around your prospects for a cheerier future. You’ve got the hairdresser telling you that you need that special haircut to set you right, the butcher offering you a prime cut that will leave you speechless at dinner time, the tailor, fashion designer, and retailer who have just about the right fit to turn heads as you walk down the street custom-fit in new threads.

There’s the insurance agent or banker who’ll sell you a product that will make you rich even if you have to go broke getting there, the shrink who promises to make you whole again, and the psychic who will predict a rosy future or damn you to hell if you don’t let them read your palms.

Then there’s the preacher, pandit, imam, rabbi who will show you the Promised Land – just make sure you leave a donation first though.

Yeah, everybody and their brother and sister have got a plan for you to turn your life around and make you to heights beyond your wildest dreams.

The thing is we all entered this world naked and our first cry of life was not for flashy garments or fancy trappings. Somehow along the journey, we lost our innocence and fell victim to the notion that outer trappings, gadgets, delicacies, stimulants, and assorted physical and material extravagances would guarantee perfect happiness and full satisfaction. And we need to get these things before our neighbors do so that we are always one step ahead.

We end up broke trying to get to that special place in life.

Yeah, we do need the comforts of life – but there are some things that money just can’t buy. Inner peace and tranquility, good thoughts free of malice, envy, and hate, appreciation for nature and for life, happy family moments, respect for others, dancing beneath the stars on a moonlit night, catching a glimpse of a fresh day at break of dawn, caring and sharing time and emotion, sending out good karma and receiving the same….these are often the ingredients of a good life that really count in the long-run…and you might still end up with money in your pocket.

“I’m Not Taken!”

“Gorgeous women come up to me all the time whenever I step out, and ask me if I’m taken.

“When I say, ‘Yes, I am,’ they suck their teeth and walk away – mumbling how hard it is to find a cab in NYC.

“Guess when the summer is over, I’m gonna have to return this NYC Taxi & Limo T-shirt that my cheapo cousin gave me as a gift last Christmas.”….”The Life and Times of Johnny Amazon”

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